don't worry (about others) be happy.

lately i have been noticing a lot of people attacking others. maybe they're unhappy with themselves, having a bad day, or something may not be going well for them in their personal life. and the only reason i am posting about others today is because i used to be that rude and unhappy girl. however, i don't try attacking people - i try to understand and help them.

"sometimes you've got to let everything go - purge yourself. if you are unhappy with anything... whatever is bringing you down, get rid of it. because you'll find that when you're free, your true creativity, your true self comes out." - tina turner

everyone grows up and becomes truly happy at different times and in different ways. or sometimes they never do. i wish i could tell you all how to become happy with yourself and how to accept others for who and what they are - but i can't.
my biggest inspiration would be my ex fiance. he's the most loving and wise person i have in my life. he does not let anything bring him down, and is also very ambitious.
my next biggest step was getting rid of those and those things that were destroying my character. such as being unhealthy, and having friends that were a bad influence on me.

getting drunk and partying is just a temporary feel of happiness. if that's all you're doing then i'd question what it is you're trying to escape from. if all you do on networking sites such as facebook is complain and hate on other people, question yourself again. "why am i so angry?"

• happiness is worth the effort.
• do what you love.
• allow yourself to grow.
• be responsible.
• have fun.
• be optimistic.
• set and accomplish goals.
• find and pursue your talent(s).
• don't worry about others.

happiness, kindness, and patience will always be rewarded.

http://healing.about.com/od/cocreate/ss/happieryousteps.htm